I got a ticket and it wasn't the fun kind


Reader, I bet you can relate to this one.

Picture this.

I'm in my Dad's bright red pickup truck. I am about to pull onto the interstate, and I see the flashing lights in the rearview mirror. I seriously have no idea why I am being stopped

The officer says, "Ma'am, you get one swipe or touch on your cellphone. I saw you touch yours multiple times. I am going to need your license, registration, and proof of insurance."

As I waited for him to finish his ticket-writing process, a lot of things ran through my head. I was hoping he would only give me a warning.

He returned to my window with my documents and an electronic ticket.

I quickly considered all the options for attempting a reprieve. In the end, I simply thanked him for educating me and accepted the ticket.

My inner critic wanted to beat me up for such a stupid violation, and then I reminded myself that I violate all kinds of traffic laws, especially posted speed limits.

The reality is that if you roll the dice enough times, eventually, you will get snake eyes.

The consequences will catch up to you.

So this week, I invite you to join me in the "I'm not perfect" club.

Luckily, you won't have to pay a $100 fine, but I am asking you to practice this week's #ShowUpPositive Spark -- ACCEPTANCE.

Whether it is your own flaws and mistakes or those of others around you, this week, choose to remember all the right times and accept the disappointment of the moment with grace and kindness.

Have an extraordinary week,

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Rita Ernst, Positivity Influencer

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