Master 1 thing to always win


Reader, do you like to win?

I'm going to tell you something that is the exact opposite of everything you were taught in school.

What you know is less important than your willingness to learn something new.

This week's #ShowUpPositive Spark is LEARN.

This is your invitation to embrace your beginner's mindset and set aside your knowing.

Here's why this move is a game-changer:

  • it releases you from unconscious bias
  • it allows someone else to teach and share with you
  • it models openness and vulnerability
  • it shifts your perspective

This week, I invite you to challenge what you think you know by approaching each conversation as a learning opportunity, seeking to gain the wisdom and insight of others.

And if you want a place to start your practice, join me today (Monday) at 12:30 ET for my LinkedIn Audio Event, Talk Me Off the Ledge.

I began the Talk Me Off the Ledge audio events at the start of this year. After eight months of intentionally choosing inquiry and learning for 45 minutes each week, I've deepened my curiosity and openness to hearing new perspectives. I've gained wisdom and forged new relationships. The community building is as meaningful as the content.

Learning is about more than acquiring knowledge. Learning is a way of being that makes space for others to shine and share their wisdom in a way that has them seen and valued.

Come join me on The Ledge and see what I mean.

🥰 Who do you know that is looking for a speaker for meetings, workshops, or trainings? An introduction would be awesome! 🥰

Rita Ernst, Positivity Influencer

My weekly emails are for you if you want a transformational SHOT OF POSITIVITY that makes you think, gets you laughing, and sparks a positive change. Start each week inspired.

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